LONELINESS
Do You Ever Feel Alone?
By Kathleen Hardaway
Author and Precept Ministries Staffer
CBN.com –
Are you married with children and still feel alone? You
may be single and feel desperately alone. The great epidemics
in our society are not only HIV/aids, diabetes, or cancer, but
the enormous increase of people feeling alone. What changed? What
happened to a society that once related to programs such as Father
Knows Best and Leave It to Beaver? The ideal marriage,
friendships with your neighbors, or walking on sidewalks where
you feel safe, secure, and not alone seems to be difficult to
find.
The heart of every person longs for a sense of community, a sense
of belonging, a strong desire to simply love and be loved. If
you’re married and your mate is not meeting these needs
in your life or if you’re single and you have no one, what
do you do? Be miserable? Have an affair? Find someone on the internet?
Many seem to be running to drugs, alcohol, food, and, even to
the television set, to anything that will help fill this void
in their lives that is so painful.
There are no simple answers for this plague of feeling lonely.
Most everyone desires companionship, friendship, and courtship.
"I Will Always Love You," (written by Dolly Parton,
sung by Whitney Houston) is one of the top selling singles of
all time. Not only is the music to this song fabulous, but so
many can relate to it. Not only do we desire to be loved, but
we desire for someone to always love us. Always. Not just some
of the time, but always and forever.
Women enjoy a good love story. The knight in shining armor, the
long awaited prince finally speaks the words that he will always
love his princess. But what do you do when your life has not turned
out like a Hollywood movie, or the ideal romance novel? One thing
that you can know for sure, your Heavenly Father is the only One
Who has perfect love. It’s eternal, it will never end. He
is the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. He formed
you in your mother’s womb. He knows you better than anyone.
He desires your very best.
In your loneliness, turn to Him. In your hurt and frustration
tell Him how badly it hurts. You may desperately desire someone
to hold you, someone to comfort you, someone simply to just be
with you. I understand. When the difficulties of singleness come,
I choose to believe this is God’s plan for my life today.
Do not believe a lie from the enemy that says, “Life will
always be this way!” It’s not God’s plan for
you to be miserable feeling alone, but it is His plan that in
your loneliness you run to Him, cling to Him, and give your life
completely to Him.
Tell Him what you‘re feeling. Everything. Cast all
your cares on Him because He cares for you (I Peter 5:7).
Never give up. Don’t lose heart. Don’t believe that
you will always be lonely. Live each day being the best mother,
wife, friend, husband, father, brother, sister you possibly can
be. If you’re walking and living in Christ you are not alone.
"…I am with you always, even to the end of the
age" (Matthew 28:20).
Kathleen Hardaway
is on staff at Precept
Ministries International and has produced and directed Kay Arthur's
TV show How Can I Live? for more than 17 years. A single
herself, Hardaway is transparent and humorous in her first book,
I
Kissed a Lot of Frogs: But the Prince Hasn't Come
(Moody, 2002).
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